Parenting Perspective 

Be a Confident and Collaborative Partner 

Speaking to teachers, speech therapists, or doctors about your child’s bilingual needs can feel intimidating at first, but clear and calm communication makes all the difference. Before a meeting, it is helpful to note down which languages your child uses, where they feel strongest, and what challenges you see at home. Be honest if your child mixes words, takes longer to respond, or struggles with certain sounds. 

Explain why both languages matter for your family, such as keeping a connection with their grandparents or understanding faith-based words. If a professional suggests dropping your home language, you can ask questions politely and share why it feels important to you. You could say, “We want our child to feel close to their family and faith. Is there a way to balance both?” Ask for practical advice, like using visual aids or simple activities that help at home. Bring up any concerns if you feel the support plan does not match your child’s daily reality. Your confident, respectful approach shows that you are not just asking for help, but that you are an active partner in your child’s learning journey. 

Spiritual Insight 

Honesty Brings Barakah 

Islam reminds us that honesty and clarity in our speech bring Barakah and build trust. Allah Almighty says in the noble Quran at Surah Al Baqarah (2), Verse 286: 

‘Allah (Almighty) does not place any burden on any human being except that which is within his capacity…’ 

This beautiful verse comforts you when you feel the weight of speaking up for your child. It reminds you that Allah Almighty knows what you carry in your heart—your fears, your hopes, and the effort you make for your child’s wellbeing. 

Make Things Easy 

The holy Prophet Muhammad ﷺ encouraged open, gentle speech when helping others to understand a situation. It is recorded in Sahih Bukhari, Hadith 6125, that the holy Prophet Muhammad ﷺ said: 

‘Make things easy and do not make things difficult.’ 

When you explain your child’s bilingual needs clearly, you are following this Sunnah of making learning easier, not harder. This simple honesty can prevent misunderstandings and build trust. If you feel nervous, make Dua that Allah Almighty blesses your words with clarity and opens the hearts of those who support your child.