Parenting Perspective 

Model Respectful Behaviour 

Encouraging siblings to protect each other’s dignity is an important aspect of fostering respect, kindness, and empathy in the home. The first step is to model respectful behaviour yourself. Children learn by observing their parents, so consistently showing kindness and consideration to each other sets a strong example. You can teach your children that their words and actions should reflect their respect for one another’s feelings. For example, if a sibling makes a mistake or is upset, encourage the other child to offer support rather than mock or criticise. 

See Differences as Strengths 

Encourage your children to see each other’s differences as strengths rather than weaknesses. Help them to understand that everyone has their own unique qualities and that they should be supportive and protective of one another. For instance, if one child is shy or quiet, you can explain that it is important to respect their need for space. Conversely, if one child is more outspoken, teach the other siblings how to be patient and not to interrupt. 

Promote Appreciation 

To promote dignity, you can create opportunities for your children to express their appreciation for each other. Encourage them to compliment and support one another rather than focusing on competition or comparison. Praise them when they demonstrate empathy and kindness, as this reinforces the importance of protecting each other’s dignity. 

Spiritual Insight 

In Islam, the protection of a person’s dignity is essential, and Allah Almighty teaches us to treat others with respect and honour. Allah Almighty states in the noble Quran at Surah Al Hujuraat (49), Verse 11: 

‘Those of you who are believers, do not let a nation ridicule another nation, as perhaps it may be that they are better than them….’ 

This verse emphasises the importance of respecting others and protecting their dignity, which includes siblings in the family. 

The holy Prophet Muhammad ﷺ also taught the importance of respecting others’ dignity and protecting their honour. It is recorded in Sahih Bukhari, Hadith 13, that the holy Prophet Muhammad ﷺ stated: 

‘None of you truly believes until he wishes for his brother what he wishes for himself.’ 

By teaching your children to protect each other’s dignity, you are instilling in them the values of respect, empathy, and mutual care, in line with the teachings of Islam.