Parenting Perspective 

Your Calm Support is Key 

Hearing that your child has been teased for their accent can be heartbreaking, but your calm support can help them to feel safe and strong. Start by listening closely to how they feel. Let them know it is okay to be upset and that you are proud of their efforts to speak up, even if they make mistakes. Explain that having an accent is not something to hide; it shows that they can speak more than one language, which is a great strength. 

You can practise positive self-talk with your child, reminding them that clear communication is more important than perfect pronunciation. Role-play gentle ways to respond if the teasing happens again, like saying, ‘That is how I say it in my family,’ or ‘I am still learning.’ If the teasing continues, speak to their teacher so your child knows that adults are working to keep the school safe and respectful. At home, praise their courage whenever they try new words. Your love and patience will help your child to see that their voice deserves to be heard exactly as it is. 

Spiritual Insight 

Honoring Dignity 

Islam honours the dignity of every person’s tongue and background. Our different languages and ways of speaking are part of Allah Almighty’s mercy and wisdom. Allah Almighty states in the noble Quran at Surah Al Hujuraat (49), Verse 11: 

‘Those of you who are believers, do not let a nation ridicule another nation, as perhaps it may be that they are better than them.…’ 

This gentle command reminds us that mocking others is not part of the character of a believer. Sharing this with your child can comfort them, helping them to see that the teasing is wrong, not their accent. 

The Prophetic Example of Respect 

The holy Prophet Muhammad ﷺ treated every person’s speech with respect and never mocked or belittled someone for how they spoke. It is recorded in Sahih Bukhari, Hadith 6136, that the holy Prophet Muhammad ﷺ said: 

‘Whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day should speak good or remain silent.’ 

This Sunnah guides us to protect our words and to stand up for others when they are hurt by unkind speech. Remind your child that Allah Almighty loves those who show patience and courage. Encourage them to keep trying, knowing that every word they say is a step on their path to knowledge. Make Dua with them, asking Allah Almighty to protect their heart from hurt and to bless their tongue with clear, confident speech.